Tori Spelling is never one to hold back. On an episode of her misSPELLING podcast last week, the Beverly Hills, 90210 star revealed to fans that she’d had her nipples pierced in Napa at age 48, and that she has a piercing in her clitoris (!) too. On this week’s episode, Spelling got even more personal, revealing that she once gave soon-to-be-ex husband Dean McDermott a sex toy as an anniversary gift — and that she’d made it herself (!!).

“I was that girl that took a lot of pride in anniversaries,” Spelling said, adding that she’s a natural “DIYer. I’m a crafter to the core… So I would always make something for Dean on our wedding anniversary, because obviously anyone can buy someone something… but I feel like I always say, homemade equals love.”

Spelling consulted both traditional and modern lists of anniversary themes to decide what to make McDermott, and for the brass gift year, she crafted a “brass cock ring.” It was “really good,” Spelling confided. “I hammered it. Oh my god, I’m so talented. I welded it.”

Like other celebs who have dished about their sex toys, we kind of love how honest Spelling is about her sex life (not that it’s the first time, as you’ll see). And we give her bonus points for taking a moment to de-stigmatize sex toys, which are an awesome addition to anyone’s sex life.

For the uninitiated, a cock ring (also called a penis ring) grips the shaft of the wearer’s penis to provide stimulation, helping it stay hard for longer and experience heightened sensation. Many are actually designed to be worn during intercourse, making this a true toy-for-two — and a pretty solid anniversary present, actually. Spelling is truly raising the bar for homemade, DIY sex toys, which we’d previously assumed was set at like, a cucumber and some lube.

Spelling also opened up about how she made McDermott a two-person wooden bench engraved with the words “Grow old with me,” the actress said. “The bench was for he and I to sit on together, like those photos you see of those old couples still holding hands,” reminisced Spelling, who got emotional at points during the show. “I bought into the love story,” she said.

Spelling also said she crafted McDermott a leather cuff stamped with their anniversary date, and a small tray embedded with pennies from both of their birth years.

The couple, who got married in 2006, have opened up about their sex life before, and even about sex toys specifically. On a 2019 episode of his Daddy Issues podcast, McDermott shared that he owns a fleshlight and spoke out against the stigma around sex toys and sex dolls. “People, I still think, have this negative connotation toward it,” he said, per Us Weekly. “Hey, look, if this is going to make someone happy, and they are not going to take their weird sexual shit out on someone, then that is why I am a fan of the dolls. If you can afford one, go get one. Suppressing your sexuality breathes weirdness.”

Also on the podcast that year, McDermott said the couple had sex “every day,” and Spelling revealed that she’s “an aggressive bottom, and I am very competitive.” McDermott said they’d also tried out CBD lubricant in bed.

Though their sex life seemed active by all accounts, Spelling also talked about the ways their sexual preferences weren’t totally aligned. “He was wanting more sex from me. He wanted more adventurous stuff. I was doing everything he wanted,” she said in a therapy session on their reality show True Tori, while discussing McDermott’s cheating scandal that came to light in 2013. “That’s why, when this happened, it was such a slap in my face.” She continued, “Our sex life was never enough… I wore that guilt all the time thinking he’s going to cheat on me.”

The couple’s relationship lasted 18 years before Spelling filed for divorce in March 2024, citing irreconciliable differences.

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It’s now 2024, people — why is masturbation still a taboo topic? We’re all for self-love — whether it’s during May (Happy Masturbation Month!) or every other month of the year. There’s nothing wrong with being your own best lover, and no one knows it better than these celebrity women who’ve spoken up about masturbation.

Honestly, masturbating every day is healthy. It’s good for married people. It’s good for single people. It’s good for all people. And that’s why we love it when people, especially famous people, aren’t afraid to talk about it. We don’t need celebrities to tell us masturbation is great, but we love it when they’re not afraid to spread the word about it. After all, the more we all normalize and de-stigmatize masturbation, the more we’ll have a culturally positive and informed approach to pleasure (which makes all sex better too!)

From Chelsea Handler (who’d rather masturbate than meditate) to Jada Pinkett Smith (who talked about the topic with her mom and daughter) to Billie Eilish and more, these celebrities have all gotten real about the importance of self-pleasure.

Read on, and then see if you don’t get inspired by these six masturbation positions that prove you don’t need a partner to have a good time.

A version of this story originally appeared in 2016.

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It’s Valentine’s Day, which means it’s time for sweet gifts like chocolate, flowers, fancy dates, and generally anything that makes you (and your partner) feel romantic and special. Whether you’re in a relationship this Valentine’s Day or enjoying the single life, we can all use some TLC this time of year, and what better way to do it than with a brand new sex toy?

And now’s the time to invest in one (or two, or three…). Not only is it the day for romance, but one of our favorite online sex toy brands, Lovehoney, is offering major savings for Valentine’s Day — just what you need to save some money and get you through the rest of the winter. Everything from clitoral stimulators to G-spot vibrators to sexy lingerie is on sale for up to 65 (!) percent off.

Ahead, we’ve rounded up a few of our favorite deals from the site — toys you’ll come back to time and time again, lingerie that flatters and makes you feel gorgeous, and full gift boxes with everything you need to start your own toy collection (or a friend’s or lover’s). Click through our faves, check out Lovehoney’s site for the full set of sales, and enjoy some steamy self-care this Valentine’s Day.

And be sure to be quick about it because the deals end TODAY!

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Discretion isn’t always a concern when it comes to buying and using a vibrator. But if you live in a house full of other people (particularly with kids who are curious and prone to touching things that aren’t theirs), it very well might be a priority to have a quiet and sneaky sex toy in your collection. Thankfully, your favorite sex toy shops are loaded with discreet vibrators that offer subtlety, silence, and satisfying sex in equal measure.

Finding time to use a vibrator is often harder than it should be. Between work, social engagements, family responsibilities and the always-growing list of shows you need to watch on Netflix, carving out a little Me Time (or even Us time with your partner) can be a serious challenge. The last thing you need is for your few, well-earned minutes of escape to be ruined by a vibrator that’s so loud it threatens to wake up the whole house or that makes you too self-conscious about the chainsaw-like sounds to actually get off.

And, of course, when we’re talking about discretion, we’re not only talking about volume—we’re also talking about toys that have a more streamlined or understated in appearance. Toys that don’t attract a lot of visual attention. Toys that, well, don’t obviously look like sex toys. A quiet motor is key to keeping someone from barging in on your alone time. But you also want a go-to that you can throw in your nightstand — or toss into your suitcase — without giving it a second thought. It doesn’t matter who stumbles upon your favorite vibrator if that vibrator looks like a necklace, or tube of lip balm, or a small piece of abstract art.

The nice part? There are so many of these stealth sex toys on the market that allow you to keep your sexy business on the DL. You can absolutely find a sex toy that isn’t obviously recognizable to the untrained eye, and that doesn’t sound like a threatening swarm of bees every time you turn it on. Sex toys so smart they practically disguise themselves? We’ll take 20.

So read on for a few that pass the low-key “shhh” test or deliver on a particularly subtle aesthetic. You might find the chill, discreet vibe of your dreams.

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Valentine’s Day is just around the corner, and you know what that means: sex toys galore. Whether you’re coupled up or flying solo this year, everyone can get in on the bedroom-toy action. To kick off the lovey-dovey season, many of our favorite brands and companies—from Good Vibes to Lovehoney— are offering can’t-miss deals and savings on sex toys and other sexual health essentials leading up to and on V-Day (and some a bit after). We’re talking up to 70 percent off, people.

Best Sex Toy V-Day Sales, at a Glance

Best Overall: Good Vibes The One Rose Clitoral Stimulator, originally $80, now $40
Best Tech Sex Toy: Lovense Lush 3, originally $229, now $119
Best Sex Toy to Reach a Climax: LELO Sila Cruise, originally $189, now $132
Best Couples’ Sex Toy: Lovehoney Sweet Romance Couple’s Sex Toy Kit, originally $170, now $100
Best Rabbit Sex Toy: Babeland The One Rabbit, originally $75, now $40
Best Travel Sex Toy: Womanizer Starlet Snow, originally $79, now $49
Best Compact Sex Toy: Dame Pom, originally $99, now $79
Best Thrusting Sex Toy: Adam & Eve Fifty Shades of Grey Greedy Girl Thrusting Rabbit, originally $140, now $126
Best Sex Toy Set: Foria The Honeymoon Set, originally $175, now $140
Most Flexible Sex Toy: MysteryVibe Crescendo 2, originally $299, now $209
Best Bullet Sex Toy: Unboundbabes Zip Vibe, originally $20, now $13
Best Sex Toy for the Shower: Girls Get Off Missy Vibe, originally $129, now $110

Have you been eyeing a cute vibrator that always felt a bit too extravagant a purchase at its regular price? Are you a collector and sex toy geek looking to expand your sexy horizons a bit more? Have you stumbled into this sex toy story having only ever played around with your bathtub faucet and want to explore some of your vibe-curious impulses? Look no further. We’ve rounded up a few of the deals and promotions for sex toy ahead of Valentine’s Day that are guaranteed to give you and your partner a good time.

Don’t wait to snag these discounted sex toys—the clock is ticking!

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BEST OVERALL

Good Vibes The One Rose Clitoral Stimulator

$40.00 $80 50% off

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Right now, you can save up to 70 percent off new toys like the one above at Good Vibes. The One Rose Clitoral Stimulator is one you want to have in hand this Valentine’s Day. It has a romantic rose shape, coated in soft silicone, which feels gentle on the body. The petal design is easy to maneuver and offers three speeds and seven patterns of suction and pulsation for optional pleasure. 

Pros:
Offers 3 Speeds and 7 Patterns of Suction and Pulsation
Water-resistant

Cons:
Smaller design
Only one color

Who this is best for: Those who are seeking clitoral and nipple stimulation

Shipping options:
Standard Ground: Order by 2/5
Priority Mail: Order by 2/8
2nd Day: Order by 2/9
Next Day: Order by 2/12

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BEST TECH SEX TOY

Lovense Lush 3

$119.00 $229.00 48% off

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Take advantage of Lovesense’s Valentine’s Day flash sale and save up to 55 percent off on high-tech intimate toys you can control from your smartphone. One bestseller to gift yourself? The Lush 3. It has a fixed “tail” that hugs onto the body and an oval body that provides intense vibrations and G-spot stimulation. The best feature? You can control the vibrator from anywhere and at any distance from the Lovense Remote app, making this an excellent option for those seeking long distance play.

Pros:
Has smart technology
Quiet vibrations 

Cons:
Controlled via an app

Who this is best for: Long distance or solo play

Shipping options:
Standard: 2 to 7 business days

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BEST SEX TOY TO REACH A CLIMAX

LELO Sila Cruise

$132.30 $189 30% off

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LELO is offering up to 50 percent off (yes, you read that right) on a variety of orgasmic sex toys. Plus, you earn a free MIA 2 lipstick vibrator for all purchases above $189. Not sure what to grab? The LELO Sila Cruise has been a bestselling sex toy for years, and it’s even on sale right now. The Sila Cruise helps you reach climax at a slow and steady pace. It gently stimulates the clitoris and features eight sonic wave settings and a special Cruise technology that controls the motion of the toy. There is also a large mouth which rests on the body to deliver a pleasurable experience. 

Pros:
Offered in 3 colors
8 vibration modes

Cons:
Specific rhythms can be too powerful, according to shoppers

Who this is best for: Building a climax

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BEST COUPLES' SEX TOY

Lovehoney Sweet Romance Couple's Sex Toy Kit

$99.99 $169.99 41% off

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Lovehoney has a special Valentine’s Day shop full of sexy bundles and new items to kick off the holiday with up to 50 percent off toys and lingerie starting at only $25. This six-piece couple’s bundle is 40 percent off and includes everything you need to get on with your partner—including the Rose Clitoral Stimulator, satin restraints, remote control bullet vibrator, and more.

Pros:
Toy options for couples
Includes various types of play

Cons:
Can not build your own bundle

Who this is best for: Couples

Shipping options:
Super Save 4-6 Day Shipping: Order before 5pm EST on Tuesday, February 6th
Expedited 2-4 Day Shipping: Order before 5pm EST on Thursday, February 8th
UPS Next Day Air Weekday Shipping: Order before 3pm EST on Tuesday, February 13th

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BEST RABBIT SEX TOY

Babeland The One Rabbit

$40.00 $74.95 47% off

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This V-Day, Babeland is offering up to 70 percent off a bunch of satisfying bedroom-ready gadgets, including this waterproof vibrator that puts you in control. The rabbit vibe includes a self-heating shaft that adjusts to your body heat. After all, we want to warm things up, not cool it down! The easy-to-use button allows you to switch the intensity of the multiple functions of vibrations and pulsations in one click. The toy’s design also has two tantalizing ears that provide G-spot stimulation. 

Pros: 
Self-heating shaft
10 speed modes
G-spot stimulator 

Cons:
One color
Contains rippled material

Who this is best for: Solo and partner play

Shipping options:
Overnight: If your order is placed at 2 pm ET on Friday with overnight shipping, it will be shipped Monday, and will usually arrive on Tuesday.
Second-Day: If your order is placed at 2 pm ET on Friday with second-day shipping, it will be shipped Monday, and will usually arrive on Wednesday.

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BEST TRAVEL SEX TOY

Womanizer Starlet Snow

$49.00 $79.00 38% off

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Womanizer is home to the original no-touch toy that’s a constant bestseller. Get prepared for Valentine’s Day and stock up on intimate necessities for up to 40 percent off. This compact and portable Womanizer toy is part of the sitewide markdowns and will rock your world. What is it? We’re so glad you asked! It’s a clit vibrator is crafted with the brand’s proprietary Pleasure Air Tech, which strikes the “perfect balance between pulsating and massaging changes in air pressure without touching the clitoris,” per Womanizer. That means the 8,000 nerve endings in your most private area are never over-stimulated. 

Pros:
Ergonomic design
Quickly charges

Cons:
One  intensity level

Who this is best for: Stimulation without touch

Shipping options:
FedEx standard shipping / DHL: 3 to 5 business days and free when you spend just $30+.
FedEx Express: 2 to 3 business days

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BEST COMPACT SEX TOY

Dame Pom

$79.20 $99.00 20% off

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Dame is getting into the Valentine’s Day action and is offering 20 percent savings sitewide when you use the code BEMINE20 at checkout (deals are live until February 2nd). There is plenty to snag in time for the V-day bedroom festivities, but it doesn’t get much better than the Dame Pom—a compact profile that makes it easy to hold close up for the ultimate control. The vibe also features a variety of patterns and intensities to keep things exciting.

Pros:
Easy to use
Close fit

Cons:
Limited amount of settings

Who this is best for: Beginners

Shipping options:
Most orders entered before 3pm ET Monday-Friday will ship same-day
Orders entered after the 3pm ET deadline will ship the next business day

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BEST THRUSTING SEX TOY

Adam & Eve Fifty Shades of Grey Greedy Girl Thrusting Rabbit

$125.99 $139.99 10% off

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Score 40 percent off one item (some products excluded) and half off shipping at Adam & Eve with the code 40BONUS. Grab this toy that shoppers say “hits the spot.” The Fifty Shades of Grey Greedy Girl Thrusting Rabbit gives you the ultimate Mr. Grey experience with its varying speeds and thrusting motion.

Pros:
Offers a thrusting motion and G-spot stimulation
12 vibration modes

Cons:
Not as quiet as other models

Who this is best for: Those who like multiple areas of stimulation

Shipping options:
Standard: 5 to 8 business days
Expedited: 3 to 5 business days
UPS 2-Day: 2 business days
UPS Overnight: 1 business day
UPS Overnight with Saturday Delivery: Saturday

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BEST SEX TOY SET

Foria The Honeymoon Set

$140.00 $175.00 20% off

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We’re patiently writing on Foria’s official Valentine’s Day sale, but to hold us over, earn free shipping on orders totaling over $70. Here’s a pick to consider this holiday: The Honeymoon Set, which includes full sizes of the Awaken Arousal Oil, the Intimacy Sex Oil, Intimacy Suppositories (two), and wellness bath salts — all with the brand’s CBD formula. 

Pros:
Gentle formulas

Cons:
Contains CBD which some may not prefer

Who this is best for: Couples play

Shipping options:
Standard Shipping: 6 to 8 business days
Expedited Shipping: 3 to 5 business days

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MOST FLEXIBLE SEX TOY

MysteryVibe Crescendo 2

$209.00 $299.00 30% off

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You don’t want to miss Mysteryvibe’s Valentine’s day sale. Right now you save $60 on their wearable vibrator, $90 off their genius bendable vibrator, and $40 on their compact vibrator for on-the-go pleasure. You can save $60 on their wearable vibrator, $50 off their genius bendable vibrator and $40 on their compact vibrator for on-the-go pleasure. The Crescendo 2 is made to mimic your fingers and easily reach the places you need for the most pleasurable stimulation.

Pros:
Bendable for multiple positions
Stimulates all 6 erogenous zones

Cons:
More expensive than others on the market

Who this is best for: Versatility and spicing things up

Shipping options:
Standard: Takes between 2 to 7 working days to arrive

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Unboundbabes Zip Vibe

$13.00 $20.00 35% off

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Another go-to sex toy sites, Unboundbabes, is offering up 60 percent off select items. Snag the best-selling Zip Vibe. It boasts a tip for “perfectly targeted stimulation,” the brand says, which will get you on your way to at true orgasm in no time.

Pros:
Affordable
Great for travel

Cons:
Only 1 speed

Who this is best for: A quickie

Shipping options:
Standard: 3 to 4 business days

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BEST SEX TOY FOR THE SHOWER

Girls Get Off Missy Vibe

$109.65 $129.00 15% off

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If you like exclusive sales, head to Girls Get Off and use our code SHEKNOWS15 to save 15 percent off sitewide. The New Zealand-based sexual wellness brand has plenty of bundles, sex toys, and intimate care to browse through in time for Valentine’s Day. The Missy vibe is a bestseller, and it’s one toy you want to have in your collection. It features a petite shape and packs potent power at the push of a button. Missy is built with ten modes and a pulsing vacuum head. Did we mention it’s also waterproof? Now, it can shower with you.

Pros:
100% waterproof
Quiet
Pulsing vacuum head

Cons:
Petite size

Who this is best for: Those proficient with vibrators

Shipping options:
Standard: 1 to 2 business days for orders to process, then shipped

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If you’re shopping online for sex toys, we always recommend going to the comments section. Just about any sex toy brand worth its salt will make a toy sound delectable in the official description, but if you really want to know how it performs and all the other important details (like how loud, powerful, and truly effective it is), your fellow shoppers have your back. And apparently, they *adore* the Missy.

For the uninitiated, the Missy is a suction sex toy from Girls Get Off, a cult-favorite, women-founded shop that’s all about empowering you to revel in your pleasure. We’ve been talking about the brand recently, as they just released a new, self-thrusting rabbit vibrator called the DeeDee that has shoppers very intrigued.

But the Missy is the current fan-favorite on the site by a wide margin. With nearly 700 positive reviews and counting, shoppers can’t stop gushing over their love for this toy, which is designed to stimulate your clitoris (and clearly does its job).

The Missy

$110 $129 15% off

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“I’ve dabbled with vibrators. But this, oh my word?!” wrote one commenter. “Who needs a man now… Absolute game changer.” That was a popular sentiment among other commenters, one of whom wrote, “Wish me luck finding a boyfriend now ladies … that’s the best O I’ve ever had.” (FWIW, other commenters said it was just as fun with a partner.) They added that they “actually stopped breathing for a bit and I’m 99% sure I saw Jesus for a second,” and claimed they had multiple orgasms despite normally being a “one-and-done girly.”

Truly, the ecstatic comments just kept coming (pun fully intended). “I came so hard I went deaf momentarily,” one person wrote. “Hands up if it made you squirt for the first time,” said another shopper.

In general, what shoppers loved was just how strong the Missy is, especially considering it’s tiny size. That’s thanks to the toy’s pulsing, vacuum-powered head, which you place over and around your clitoris for a seriously pleasurable sensation. It’s also waterproof and easy to use, offering 10 modes that you can toggle between using the simple plus and minus buttons on the side.

The Missy is also billed as a more discreet, quiet vibrator, though some shoppers said it’s louder than you might think, especially on the higher settings. It’s definitely small and travel-ready, though, and easily USB-rechargeable for when you’re on the go.

And although the Missy was designed for people with vulvas, male users say they’re also getting in on the fun. One man in the comments says he’s been using the Missy on his nipples and calls the toy his new best friend. Girls Get Off also recommends people with penises try the Missy on the base of the penis head or move it up and down the shaft to see what feels best.

The Missy retails for $129, but you’re in luck, because we’ve got an exclusive discount code you can use to score 15 percent off. Just type in SHEKNOWS15 at checkout and enjoy! PS: that code works sitewide, so feel free to stock up on lube, toy cleaner (yes, you should be cleaning your toys!), or explore any of the brand’s other popular toys while you’re at it.

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Founded in 2020 by two women (and best friends), Girls Get Off is dedicated to taking the shame out of sex and sex toys. They’re doing it by selling their products like any other wellness or makeup brand — with pretty aesthetics, discreet packaging, and a focus on taking care of (and empowering) yourself. The careful, curated approach to sex toys has attracted fans in the thousands who swear by the brand’s products. The perennial favorite: GGO’s clit vibrator, Missy, which reportedly sells out on the regular and has racked up over 670 five-star reviews on the site. Girls Get Off released a brand new toy, DeeDee, earlier this month, and suffice to say expectations were high.

DeeDee is a self-thrusting rabbit vibrator, and yes, we did say self-thrusting. Rabbit vibes, for the uninitiated, are beloved because they stimulate your clitoris and your G-spot at the same time, so you get penetration, vibration, and lots of attention on your most sensitive spots, internal and external. Not all rabbit vibrators also have the ability to thrust, though, which takes DeeDee to another level.

DeeDee Vibrator

$161 $189 15% off

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DeeDee’s ribbed arm can thrust at different speeds while the external arm takes care of the vibration. They both come together to offer nine different modes of speed and intensity, for what the brand promises will be a “jelly-legged experience.” And if you’re confused as to how a vibrator can also thrust, well, just take a look at the video on Girls Get Off’s site for a demonstration. Looks prettyyyy powerful to us.

The new toy hasn’t pulled in any reviews on the site since its recent launch, but Girls Get Off shared some comments from their testing team, who sounded well satisfied by their experience. “It’s such a different but like WOW factor sensation,” one person said. Another tester said that they would usually never buy “a self-thrusting dildo thing, but this toy is incredible!”

DeeDee also offers magnetic charging, a pretty carrying bag, super-soft material, and a totally waterproof coating, so you can take the fun to your next shower or bath if you so desire. FYI: It’s also on the more expensive side, coming in at $189, but we can help with that. Use our exclusive code SHEKNOWS15 and take 15 percent off sitewide.

While you’re taking advantage of the discount, we also recommend checking out the After Banger to keep your toy clean and fresh. (Quick toy PSA: you should be cleaning sex toys before and after every use and replacing any toys that are getting worn out!) You can also stock up on GGO’s vegan, water-based lube, which is approved for use with the brand’s toys. Shoppers love its non-stickiness and its cute, discreet packaging.

Remember that everyone has different preferences when it comes to sex toys, and DeeDee will likely be on the more intense side, so take it slow and work your way up to a level that feels right to you. Note that this toy isn’t the quietest, either, so keep that in mind before you fire it up for the first time. And don’t forget to claim your discount with our code (SHEKNOWS15) when you do!

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We love our fancy, high-tech sex toys, but sometimes — for example, when you’re getting a little frisky in the kitchen — there’s just not enough time to run into your bedroom and unearth your favorite paddle or dildo. This is where grabbing a homemade sex toy like a spatula or cucumber might come in handy. Using a household item for sexy things might feel a bit weird at first, but can also be a fun way to spice things up inside and outside of the bedroom, while also being cost-effective.

“A big draw of household items is the budget aspect. Basically, we’re all trying to save money and most of us don’t have hundreds of dollars to spend on sex toys so if we can get creative and save, that’s a big win,” Gigi Engle, a certified sex and relationship psychotherapist and sex expert at the LGBTQIA+ dating app, Taimi, tells SheKnows. “[Household items] can also be fun because often we use a household item rather spontaneously which can add some spice to your sex life. Plus, we’re getting really creative and essentially playing an erotic game with ourselves and our partners when we’re thinking about non-sexual items in a sexy way.”

Another benefit? When you use a regular, household item as a homemade sex toy, you’re injecting a little bit of passion into your everyday life. “Any time that object is seen or used outside of the bedroom, it will spark a memory of the shared sexual exploration,” sex coach Jenna Switzer tells SheKnows. “This is an epic way to keep the passion alive even during mundane daily chores.”

How to Use Homemade Sex Toys Safely

Before we go through the list, remember that safety and cleanliness are key! Prior to putting any foreign object in your body (including your vagina, mouth, anus, or anywhere else), it must be sanitized and ideally covered with a condom. Otherwise, it could cause irritation or abrasions (not at all sexy, folks). For good measure, get in the habit of cleansing anything you use sexually post-game too. And yes, you should also be cleaning sex toys (and keeping in mind that we have to say goodbye to every good vibe eventually.)

“Our bodies’ natural bacterial balance can easily be thrown off by the foreign bacteria lodged in the crevices of toys or food,” Switzer says. “Be mindful that you clean items thoroughly with a non-scented soap and use condoms on any objects that you use for penetration.” Another bonus of using condoms, Switzer adds, is that they’ll reveal any hidden, sharp edges on the object.

Some of the household sex toys we recommend here aren’t specifically designed for skin contact (think candles, vegetables, and ice). In those cases, “be very mindful about application and use,” Switzer says. “Gently test temperature items on a small area of skin to gauge sensitivity.” If you have any concerns about an object, run it by your ob/gyn (awkward conversation, we know, but better than an infection!) or skip it.

Besides considering the safety and hygiene aspects of using homemade sex toys, ASTROGLIDE’S resident sexologist Dr. Jess O’Reilly notes that many of the suggestions below involve kinky play, so you’ll want to ensure you’re communicating before, during and after the interaction. “Discuss your desires and boundaries ahead of time. If you’re getting kinky, you may want to select a safe work or safe signal,” she tells SheKnows. “Safe words and safe signals are coded responses that allow you to clearly and immediately communicate your limits and needs.” For example, O’Reilly says, you can snap your fingers or raise your hands to indicate that you are feeling uncomfortable and want to stop. “Safe words and signals should be clearly defined and if you want to stop or have changed your mind about any activity, you shouldn’t hesitate to use yours with the expectation that your partner will respond immediately.”

22 Best Homemade Sex Toys

Keeping that in mind, continue reading to check out some of our favorite homemade sex toys that, if used correctly (and safely), will give you a mind-blowing orgasm and leave you impressed with your own sexual ingenuity. Warning: you might not look at your spatula the same way again.

A version of this story was originally published in August 2017.

There are few things in life as reliable as a good sex toy. Once you find the right one for your unique body and tastes, you’re basically guaranteed to experience an incredible orgasm whenever you turn it on. Whether you use one alone or with a partner or partners, the simple addition of a vibrator, dildo, or cock ring can transform your experience into something that’s truly out-of-body sensational.

So, we’re pretty pumped to say that one of our favorite sex toy brands, Lovehoney, is having the Black Friday sale to end all Black Friday sales. The hub of pleasure toys has marked down some of its most popular products by up to 70% off. And while some brands tend not to mark down their most popular products on big sales days like this, Lovehoney is being extra generous. The coveted Womanizer clitoral stimulator is on sale right now, so come quick — get it? — and snag this sale before it’s over!

Below, shop the best Lovehoney sex toy deals you can buy now.

Best Lovehoney Black Friday Deals at a Glance

Best clitoral vibrator: Womanizer X Lovehoney Pro40 Rechargeable Clitoral Stimulator, $79, originally $99

Best suction vibrator: Lovehoney Rose Clitoral Suction Stimulator, $34.99, originally $49.99

Best wand vibrator: Mantric Rechargeable Wand Vibrator, $32, originally $79.99

Best cock ring: Lovehoney Bed Ringer Rechargeable Double Cock Ring, $20, originally $49.99

Best G-spot and clitoral stimulator: Lovehoney Indulge G-Spot and Clitoral Suction Stimulator, $55.99, originally $79.99

Best curved vibrator: Mantric Rechargeable Realistic Vibrator, $28, originally $69.99

Most versatile vibrator: Magic Wand Rechargeable Extra Powerful Cordless Vibrator, $119, originally $149.99

BEST CLITORAL VIBRATOR

Womanizer X Lovehoney Pro40 Rechargeable Clitoral Stimulator

$79 $99 20% off

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The Womanizer is one of the most famous sex toys on the market. The clitoral stimulator is known and loved for its ability to help vulva owners climax in minutes (or seconds). It’s designed to fit over the clitoris and provide the same sensations you experience when receiving oral sex. The different pulsation and suction settings make this vibrator top-notch. Usually $99, you can shop it today for $79.

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BEST CLITORAL STIMULATOR

Lovehoney Rose Clitoral Suction Stimulator

$34.99 $49.99 30% off

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A sex toy that’s as pretty as it is effective, this Rose stimulator has a whopping 10 different suction settings that will allow you to craft a truly personal experience every time you use it.

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BEST WAND VIBRATOR

Mantric Rechargeable Wand Vibrator

$32 $79.99 60% off

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Save a whopping 60% on this wand vibrator that’s anything but ordinary. It features seven “intense” settings to get you feeling good and light. Pro tip: use this vibrator for both internal and clitoral stimulation.

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BEST COCK RING

Lovehoney Bed Ringer Rechargeable Double Cock Ring

$20 $49.99 60% off

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People with vaginas aren’t the only ones who can enjoy vibrating sex toys. This cock ring fits around penises and includes 12 different vibration settings to aid in the arousing pressure already provided by the ring design. Get this for just $20 while you can.

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BEST G-SPOT AND CLITORAL STIMULATOR

Lovehoney Indulge G-Spot and Clitoral Suction Stimulator

$55.99 $79.99 30% off

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You don’t have to choose between clitoral and internal stimulation when you get this two-in-one device. It’s crafted to hit your G-spot internally, while also providing suction to your clitoris externally. With this toy, it’s encouraged to be as greedy as you’d like.

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BEST CURVED VIBRATOR

Mantric Rechargeable Realistic Vibrator

$28 $69.99 60% off

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Half-off for a limited time, this curved vibrator is designed to look — and feel — like a shaft. It even has a raised tip for you to enjoy. The seven vibration modes and easy-to-use design makes this a great use-anywhere device for you and your partner alike.

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MOST VERSATILE VIBRATOR

Magic Wand Rechargeable Extra Powerful Cordless Vibrator

$119.99 $149.99 20% off

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This Magic Wand massager packs a serious punch, and can (and should) be used wherever you’d like, from your nipples and back to your inner thighs and beyond. Usually $150, grab it for $120 while it’s on sale for Black Friday.

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In the midst of the holiday hustle and bustle, it’s important you squeeze in some much-needed self care. Our favorite way to unwind after making our lists and checking them twice? Stocking up on some sex toys to make our worries melt away, because let’s be real: The last few years have really given us a lot to freak out about.

But never fear, Black Friday deals for sex toy are here! From LELO (you may have read about our intense love for some of their newer vibes) to Unbound, there are plenty of Black Friday and Cyber Monday sex toy and wellness sales underway to get you in the holiday spirit. In some places, you can save up to 80 percent off — so that’s basically free, right?

So, grab a comfy spot on the couch, fire up that credit card, and get to shopping these sales — but don’t wait too long, it’s quite literally one of your last chances to snag sex toy deals this year.

Best Black Friday Sex Toy Deals at a Glance

Best clitoral vibrator: Womanizer X Lovehoney Pro40 Rechargeable Clitoral Stimulator, $79, originally $99

Best suction vibrator: LELO Enigma, $149.25, originally $199

Best G-spot and clitoral vibrator: Womanizer OG, $159, originally $199

Best double whammy: Fun Factor Next-Level Sex Kit, $119.99, originally $134.99

Cutest toy: Unbound Puff, $33.60, originally $48

Best TikTok-approved toy: PinkCherry Rose vibrator, $24.95, originally $49.90

Best deal: Honey Play Box’s buy two toys, get the third free

Best couples toy: Dame Eva II, $98, originally $140

Best labia and vulva vibrator: MysteryVibe Legato, $149, originally $162

Best collection: WeVibe x Womanizer Silver Delights Collection, $139, originally $199

Best rabbit vibrator: JimmyJane Reflexx Rabbit, $39.19, originally $55.99

Prettiest vibrator: OSUGA Moonflow Vibrator, $53.40, originally $89

Lovehoney

A go-to for all things bedroom related, Lovehoney is serving up to 70 percent off on select essentials, sex toys, bondage gear and lingerie — and they aren’t kidding when they call them mega deals. You could spend hours browsing through their offerings, but be sure to scoop up one of the cult-beloved sex toys (like Womanizer Pro40), a stealth and kinky under-bed restraint set (perfect for BDSM beginners, just play safely!) or ROMP clitoral stimulator for some major bang for your buck.

BEST CLITORAL STIMULATOR

Womanizer X Lovehoney Pro40 Rechargeable Clitoral Stimulator

$79 $99 20% off

Buy Now

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LELO

Despite being beloved by the likes of Beyoncé and Goop who hardly need to be bargain hunting, luxury sex toy brand LELO doesn’t skimp on the deals either come Black Friday and Cyber Monday. With their sale section broken up into categories ranging from 25 percent off to 60 percent off, you can almost definitely find something worth scooping up this season.

You can grab their double-threat suction toy Enigma for just $149, Sona 2 Cruise for only $112 and Sila for under $127.

BEST SUCTION VIBRATOR

LELO Enigma

$149.25 $199 25% off

Buy Now

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Womanizer

You can score up to 50 percent off on products from Womanizer during Black Friday, including collections like their All-About-Us Collection. You can also score their newest toy, the Womanizer OG, which targets both your clit and your G-spot.

Fun Factory

Offering up to 30 percent off site-wide on toys and 10 percent off on accessories until November 29, Fun Factory is definitely a can’t-miss spot for sexy Black Friday and Cyber Monday goodies. We love a lot of what’s up for sale, but the kits and sets (like the Next-Level Sex Kit) are stand-outs just for the sheer amount of bangage you’ll get for your bucks.

Unbound

One of my favorite sex toy brands out there, Unbound, is offering 30 percent off sitewide for Black Friday. So take the opportunity to pick up Clutch (their rabbit vibe I fell in love with this year) or Puff (my favorite toy of the last few years) or maybe check out some of their fun, aesthetic kink options (these cuffs are legit cute?) or their super adorable and powerful cordless wand Ollie.

CUTEST TOY

Unbound Puff

$33.60 $48 30% off

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Pinkcherry

Using the code BLACK, Pinkcherry is offering up to 80 percent off across their site. Among the super discounted items the TikTok-viral, super-popular Rose-shaped vibrator (with amazing suction), which is 79 percent off, or these stylish handcuffs that you could totally wear as jewelry.

Honey Play Box

Three’s company! Honey Play Box is offering a buy two, get one free deal on their toys — meaning you can score a hefty upgrade to your collection in one shopping cart.

Dame

In honor of the shopping holidays, Dame is offering deals up to 60% off, and the sale even includes bundles! Now’s your chance to get the cult-fave Eva II hands-free vibrator that’s got everyone talking or even their crowd-pleasing bundle (called, literally, The Crowd Pleaser) that includes three luxe toys and lube.

BEST COUPLES TOY

Dame Eva II

$98 $140 30% off

Buy Now

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MysteryVibe

MysteryVibe’s Black Friday sale is slashing prices on tons of their amazing vibrators including their flexible labia and vulva vibrator, Legato, and on gift sets like this sweet Crescendo 2 gift set that comes with Pjur Aqua lube and some play cards to help you level-up your toy game.

BEST LABIA AND VULVA VIBRATOR

MysteryVibe Legato

$162 $249 35% off

Buy Now

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WeVibe

A longtime fave of ours, We-Vibe is offering up to 50 percent off certain vibes — including a few collections. The Silver Delights Collection is a particular stand-out (at 30 percent off for both toys) but you can also score their small but mighty mini-massager Touch for just $79.

BEST COLLECTION

WeVibe x Womanizer Silver Delights Collection

Buy Now $139

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JimmyJane

With savings up to 60 percent off on some of JimmyJane’s amazing toys, you can score their Dual Gripp toy, Reflexx Rabbit for under $70.

Osuga

With the code BF2023, you can score something sweet and sexy from Osuga for 40 percent off. I’d keep your eye on a unique and pretty toy like their OSUGA Moonflow or Cuddly Bird vibrators.

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Whether you’re just starting your sex toy collection or you already have a treasure chest of playthings under your bed, there are oh so many toys to choose from these days. From dildos and cock rings to wands and rabbit vibrators, there are dozens of different kinds of toys to use, and a seemingly infinite amount of ways to use them. Of course, one option we’re partial to is the clitoral vibrator, for reasons we’ll get into ahead. And if you’re in the market for a new clitoral vibe, you’ve come to the right place, because LELO’s bestselling Sona 2 Cruise is currently on sale for 20 percent off, and shoppers can’t get enough of it.

So why clitoral vibrators, and what makes the Sona 2 Cruise special, specifically? Clitoral vibrators, in general, are of course meant to stimulate your clitoris, aka the network of nerves that culminates in that magical little nub. A recent study found that the average clitoris has over 10,200 total nerve endings, which is more than double the number of nerve endings in the head of the penis, meaning that the clitoris is even more sensitive than we’d previously thought.

LELO SONA 2 Cruise

Buy Now $119.20

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All of that is to say: there’s a reason that clitoral orgasms are seriously powerful, and clitoral toys are designed to help you reach new heights of pleasure with them. LELO’s Sona 2 Cruise, specifically, is a sonic clit vibrator, which means it uses sonic pulses (instead of your standard vibrations) to stimulate “deep into the internal structure of the clitoris,” promising to help you experience “an entirely new sensation.” The toy comes with 12 different settings to help you find the pulse patterns that feel the best for you.

The Sona 2 Cruise also comes with LELO’s signature Cruise Control technology, which means the toy won’t drop off in intensity when you press it harder against your body (as you might want to do when you’re getting close). It’s also waterproof and made of soft, comfortable silicone to feel good against those sensitive spots.

Dipping into the reviews, it sounds like shoppers are getting exactly what they want out of the Sona 2 Cruise. “The best thing ever!” writes one reviewer. “Don’t know how I was living without it.” Another called it the “best toy [I] ever invested in,” while another satisfied user says it’s “Perfect for the ultimate treat to yourself when you want some solo pleasure. Satisfaction guaranteed.” (FYI, other reviewers said they use it for partnered play too.)

With the Sona 2 Cruise on sale right now, you can get all that clitoral goodness for 20 percent off its list price. Head on over and start filling up that cart.

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Amazon is a one-stop shop for excellent (and excellently priced) sex toys, so we want to make sure you know the site’s top sex toy deals before Amazon’s October Prime Day ends today. Maybe the biggest sale we’ve found so far? Amazon’s #1-bestselling clitoral vibrator, the ava Vibrator Wand, is on sale for almost 40 percent off. The vibe is down to $18.95 from its normal price of $29.95, and yeah, we’re hitting that “add to cart” button right now.

The Vibrator Wand from ava has over 19,000 five-star reviews — a pretty impressive record, when you consider how different every reviewer’s preferences are. Why does it work so well? Probably because the ava Vibrator Wand is all about choosing your own adventure. It comes with 20 different vibration patterns and eight intensity settings, from gentle pulses to deep, powerful vibrations, all designed to stimulate your clitoris and serve up maximum pleasure. And when you find a setting you love, the wand’s “intuitive memory” remembers it. When you click the vibe back on again, you can pick right back up where you left off.

This handy toy also boasts a full 2.5 hours of battery life (longer than most competing brands) so you can take it for a quick run or do a marathon session whenever you like. When the battery does run out, the wand is conveniently rechargeable via a USB port, so you can plug it in until you’re ready to go again.

Of course, before you plug it in, you’ll want to give your toy a good clean — which is another area where the ava Wand excels. Made of soft, waterproof silicone (so yes, you can take this toy into the shower or bath with you), the wand is easily cleanable with soap and water or a wet wipe. The wand also comes with a soft fabric pouch to store your charging kit and pack the wand away for some fun on-the-go.

As for that review section, well, it’s full of very satisfied customers. One reviewer, a husband who bought the toy for his wife, said the wand is “velvety smooth” with “surprisingly strong [vibrations] for something so small.” He noted that it’s “small and easy to hide” for travel and, all in all, “It does its intended job well.”

Other reviewers also loved how soft and velvety the ava Vibrator Wand is while enjoying the different vibration modes. The wand is “powerful on its high settings but comfy on the low ones if you’re a beginner and has a ton of different modes to try out,” wrote one reviewer. They also claimed the battery lasts even longer than advertised, with the wand “consistently last[ing] >4 hours.”

Vibrators can vary in noise levels, and reviewers gave this one mixed reviews on that front. While some noted that the ava Wand was a little too loud for their tastes, one reviewer said it hit the spot. “The loudness/sound was … a plus for me since these little wonders can actually be very loud for their size. This one has a soft purr sound (not too loud but not too soft either).”

Feeling intrigued? Now’s the time to pick up this bestselling vibrator, while it’s on sale for less than $20 for the rest of the day. You can thank us later.

And as a reminder, this and all the incredible discounts you can score during October’s Prime Day are for Amazon Prime members. If you’re not a member just yet, be sure to sign up HERE to take advantage of all the great savings from Amazon Prime Big Deal Days 2023.

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A good sex toy is a few things: fun, effective, (generally) long-lasting. A truly excellent sex toy, though, is all of these things — and it’s also easy on the eyes. Pretty sex toys, truly, are the best of both worlds, which is why we’ve rounded up 20 of our favorites right here.

Since a sex toy’s chief purpose is to turn you on, you obviously don’t want to opt for something that leaves you feeling weirded out (or worse, grossed out) every time you look at it. But being discreet in appearance is the least a sex toy can do. Exceptional toys — the toys you swear by and recommend to your friends — do more than the bare minimum. They delight. They entrance. They stun so thoroughly that you may find yourself tempted to adorn every corner of your house with them like your home is a funky little sex museum. And in some cases, the sex toys on offer are so pretty you actually could use them as decor (post-a healthy, product-recommended cleaning regimen!)

Whether haphazardly strewn across a table or carefully assembled on a shelf, some vibrators, dildos, and butt plugs are so stunning that they manage to elevate any space they’re in. We picked out the following sex toys because they’re sure to upgrade any corner of your home with fun colors, unique shapes, and luxe materials. With sex toys this pretty, why not give them something to do when you’re not putting them to good use?

A version of this story was published December 2019.

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Ah, sex toys. As a grown adult, hopefully, you’ve found a few favorite standbys for your personal pleasure chest. (If not, allow us to recommend some favorites.) But if you typically only use your sex toys to go alone, it’s time to expand your horizon and consider some new possibilities. As it turns out, sex toys aren’t just for solo play — they can also make partnered adventures even more enthralling. And we’re not just talking about using what you have. Yes, you can grab your fave vibe and bring it to the coupled mix, but there’s a whole market full of toys designed to give both you and your boo pleasure, no jealousy required.

Like most things, the enjoyment of toys is better shared. We focused here on toys that are meant to be used with a partner. From hands-free vibrators to clenched-Kegel dildos, we think these are the best toys to explore with your best bed friend. And you’re a little nervous about asking them to branch out and experiment with you, lean into it — the nerves will bring some adrenaline and might just make the whole thing that much more exciting. After all, you never know what they might be into until you ask.

So go on. Add a little buzz to your breakfast sex, some daring to your dinnertime denouement. These toys can help.

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A version of this story was published October 2017.

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If you’re a regular reader of SheKnows, you’ll know we have a well-documented love of clitoral vibrators. Honestly, we’re fans of pretty much all sex toys, from affordable Amazon favorites to celeb-approved vibrators to the DIY toys you can find around the house (yes, really), and we’re always on the lookout for a new toy to bring a little extra fun and pleasure to the bedroom. Even better when it’s on sale — and even better when it’s almost 50 percent off. So, today, let us present The One Rose Clitoral Stimulator, which is currently on sale for 44 percent off (!) at one of our favorite online shops for sex toys, Good Vibrations.

Why a clitoral vibe, you ask? For one thing, the clitoris is extremely sensitive. A recent study estimated that the average clitoris has over 10,200 nerve endings, which is more than double the number of nerve endings in the head of a penis (not that it’s a competition or anything).

In a previous interview with SheKnows, relationship coach and sex educator Dawn Serra described the clitoris as “a massive network of swollen, tingly pleasure,” because it’s bigger than you think, with structures extending throughout your pelvic floor. It may look like a little nub from the outside, but it’s actually shaped more like a four-legged animal — that’s how much it extends throughout your pelvic floor. All those nerves can make for extremely intense orgasms when you give your clitoris the right kind of attention.

That brings us back to The One Rose, which is a suction toy that uses the power of air to create an intense sensation on and around your clitoris. In other words, it doesn’t just (or even primarily) vibrate — it actually pulses air around the clitoris, with the goal of creating a sensation that feels like oral sex. (Pro tip: you can use it on your nipples too.)

Curious yet? That’s the idea. The One Rose is designed with “pressure wave technology” to make it feel like your clitoris is being sucked by air, and it packs three different speed modes and seven patterns of suction and pulsation into one small product. And we mean small: The One Rose can fit right into the palm of your hand. It’s also USB rechargeable, water-resistant, and super simple to use, with just one button to turn it on and cycle through speeds and patterns.

And now is the ideal time to pick up The One Rose, considering it’s almost 50 percent off from Good Vibrations. You’ll be saving about $35, so if you’ve always been curious to try out this kind of vibrator or you’re just looking to shake up your sex toy collection, you have our green light to go for it. Just remember to thank us later.

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Buying sex toys used to mean either sitting through a “passion party” or braving a brick and mortar “adult” store where everyone seemed embarrassed to be there. Thankfully, the internet has revolutionized the way people buy sex toys, offering a seemingly endless array of options — and not just at speciality stores. Affordable drugstore sex toys are also available, and trust us, there’s zero compromise in the pleasure department if you snap up one of these low-priced finds. Target and Amazon are bursting with the best drugstore sex toys — and they’ve been ranked among the best by stimulation seekers who have their pick of the litter online.

Whether you already have a drawer filled with sex toys or you’re a little shy about this kind of buy, it’s never too late to start your collection. Consider it an investment in self-care; you certainly won’t be alone. Thankfully, taboos about sex toys and masturbation are dwindling as the years go by, and the steady rise in sex toy purchases is reflecting this trend toward, shall we say, self-acceptance. One study shows that more than 80 percent of female consumers keep these handy helpers in their nightstands, making it a billion-dollar industry.

Wanna get in on the self-pleasure game — or up your game? These over-the-counter sex toys — including clitoral stimulators, waterproof bullets, vibrating butt plugs and more — are ready for action and available at push of a finger, and each for under $35. See what all the buzz is about.

Hello Cake Little Sucker Rechargeable and Waterproof Clitoral Stimulator

The inclusive sex toy brand that’s burning up the charts at Target right now is Cake, which offers vibrant vibrating toys for people with vulvas and people with penises. Their hottest seller is this clitoral stimulator that uses 10 different suction modes to customize your pleasure.

plusOne Waterproof and Rechargeable Dual Rabbit Vibrator

This dual vibrator by plusOne stimulates you internally and externally simultaneously. With 10 different settings, it must be getting the job done expertly because thousands of Target reviewers are raving. One called it “Seriously a godsend.”

Hello Cake Little Massager Rechargeable Vibrator

We love a discreet vulva vibrator, and this little purple pleasure machine has 10 settings to stimulate all your erogenous zones, from your inner thighs and beyond. “Got this on sale and it’s given me more pleasure than any other vibrator I’ve tried,” wrote a fan. “Only down fall is I can’t withstand it very long.”

plusOne Waterproof Rechargeable Vibrating Bullet

A bullet is a girl’s best friend! (And a he and they’s too!) This rechargeable, soft and waterproof option is available at Target and can hang with any of the more expensive options in your collection.

plusOne Fluttering Arouser Rechargeable and Waterproof Clitoral Stimulator

Suction toys are undoubtedly trendy in the sex toy world and snagging this one for under $40 bucks from plusOne is a steal. Smooth, powerful and a totally luxe experience at your local drug store.

plusOne Waterproof and Rechargeable Vibrating Ring

Vibrating penis rings are another awesome addition to a collection — and this one is waterproof and rechargeable and a great pick for beginners looking to see if this kinda toy jives with their nightly plans.

Hello Cake Buzzy Butt Rechargeable Vibrating Butt Plug

With its tapered tip, Cake’s Buzzy Butt is good for beginners and seasoned pros alike. The USB-charged vibrating butt plug is at your service with 10 different vibe settings, and it’s waterproof so you can experiment wherever the mood strikes.

LifeStyles a:muse His & Hers Pleasure Massagers Kit

This massager kit has something for everyone, with a multi-speed vibrating ring great for a penis, and multi-speed finger massager for someone with a vagina. The raised studs on the ring and textured surface of the finger massager add increased pleasure for both partners. Both massagers feature three different intensities, up to 35 minutes of vibration, are water resistant and easy to clean, and yes: batteries are included.

Trojan Vibrations Ultra Touch Intense Vibrating Fingertip 

Don’t be fooled by the small size: This bullet and fingertip vibrator packs a punch. It’s easy to transport (and even comes in its own discreet carrying case) and is waterproof, so you can use it in the shower, bath or pool if you are so inclined.

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For people with vulvas, there’s a whole host of ways to have a really good orgasm. One of the most beloved of the big O’s are ones coming from clitoral stimulation, because, well, the clitoris is a super sensitive area totally charged with erogenous energy (aka thousands of nerves concentrated in that one intense spot).

As sex educator and relationship coach Dawn Serra previously told SheKnows, the clitoris is a “massive network of swollen, tingly pleasure.” It’s bigger than you might think (looking more like a four-legged animal than one spot), gets an erection of its own (similar to the penis), and the ways it receives and responds to pleasure evolves over time. And while you might have found your way around your own clitoris (or guided a few partners through the Dos and Don’ts), it’s totally normal for the clit to take a bit of time to reach full arousal. “Remember that it takes, on average, 20-25 minutes of stimulation and foreplay before a woman is fully aroused,” Serra says.

While there’s tons of toys on the market — ones that cater to penetration, to high tech bells and whistles or ones that are just unique and a little surprising —  sometimes you want to find a toy that’s really good at one thing. Whether you’re just starting your toy collection or looking for a new MVP toy, we’ve rounded up our favorites — ones that mimic oral (right down to the tongues) and ones that vibrate in low-key and high-key ways — that target the clit. Try a few of these out and you’ll level-up your cliteracy in no time.

A version of this story was published April 2020.

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There are few things better than celebrities being open about their sex lives. We love knowing that our favorite stars are out there embracing pleasure, having fun, and using their clout to dispel stigma around something that everyone should be able to safely and happily enjoy: sex. Plus, since their sex toy budgets are a bit more luxurious than the rest of us (looking at you, GOOP!), it can be really fun to get a glimpse at the cool sex toys celebs are able to splurge on and, more helpful for us normies, the more accessible ones that they swear by anyway.

Not every celebrity needs to shout from the rooftops their favorite vibrator style, make, and model, but plenty of them have come out in different interviews to sing the praises of a toy that’s blown their minds, broadened their horizons, or aligned perfectly with their lifestyle and sex life. From a Pocket Rocket rec’d by a former Spice Girl to the notorious sex bench we saw Cara Delevingne and Ashley Benson carry into their apartment, these celebrity sex toy favorites run the gamut of vanilla to super adventurous — and we love them all equally. While not all of these are the exact toy, they represent close matches based on interviews and shout-outs we’ve found in recent memory. Check ’em out and maybe pick a few up for yourself to have a star-studded sexual experience of your own.

A version of this story was published May 2020.

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When it comes to sex toys, the only thing better than uncovering a hidden gem or experimenting with a new favorite is when you find a high-quality toy that’s on sale — and we mean major sale. We know not everyone has time to scour the sites and figure out where to buy sex toys online (or hunt through the shelves in your favorite boutique), so sometimes, when we find a can’t-miss sale, we just might be generous enough to share it.

That’s why we’re here to talk about the LELO Lily 3 clitoral vibrator, which is a whopping 40 percent off for all of 2023 — and, if you buy before September 1, you get an additional 10 percent off with the code SUMMEREND. We did the math for you, and that comes out to 50 percent off for this incredible little toy.

So what’s so great about the Lily 3, other than its current price tag? The small, pretty, and ergonomic design is a great selling point — you can tuck it into a suitcase for a little fun while you’re away from home, and it’s quiet enough to not disturb any hotel neighbors in the room next door. The Lily 3 also offers 10 powerful settings so you can ramp up your pleasure or turn things down for a slow burn. As a bonus, this popular vibe comes in three colors — dark plum, calm lavender, and polar green — for some truly perfect packaging.

The pages and pages of five-star reviews caught our eye too. The Lily 3 “has a slower, deeper build-up than any vibrator or bullet I’ve used,” wrote one satisfied user. It’s “compact, sensuous, [and] works like a dream” said another. Other reviewers described the Lily 3 as “quiet as a mouse” and “smooth and silky feeling.” Many loved how discreet and travel-friendly the Lily 3 is, while others commented that it’s great for partners as well as solo play. “I have never seen my wife orgasm so quickly. Might need to purchase a backup in case she wears this one out,” one reviewer wrote. OK… consider us convinced.

And if you’ve never tried a clitoral vibrator before, reviewers assure us that LELO’s Lily 3 is easy-to-use and beginner-friendly. And if it is your first time trying out a clitoris-focused sex toy, it’s a good idea to start with one of Lily 3’s lower settings. Your clitoris is a sensitive place, with literally thousands of nerve endings concentrated in one small area, so any kind of vibration down there is going to feel intense — you’ll want to warm up a bit before you turn up the power.

The Lily 3 is also waterproof, and LELO recommends adding a liberal amount of lube to the toy “for the smoothest experience” before getting playtime started. Other than that, there’s nothing holding you back from testing out this petite but powerful vibe for yourself, especially while it’s 50 percent off (remember to use the code SUMMEREND to get that additional 10 percent). And if you miss the end-of-summer sale, don’t stress — the Lily 3 is still on sale for 40 percent off for the rest of the year.

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