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It’s now 2024, people — why is masturbation still a taboo topic? We’re all for self-love — whether it’s during May (Happy Masturbation Month!) or every other month of the year. There’s nothing wrong with being your own best lover, and no one knows it better than these celebrity women who’ve spoken up about masturbation.

Honestly, masturbating every day is healthy. It’s good for married people. It’s good for single people. It’s good for all people. And that’s why we love it when people, especially famous people, aren’t afraid to talk about it. We don’t need celebrities to tell us masturbation is great, but we love it when they’re not afraid to spread the word about it. After all, the more we all normalize and de-stigmatize masturbation, the more we’ll have a culturally positive and informed approach to pleasure (which makes all sex better too!)

From Chelsea Handler (who’d rather masturbate than meditate) to Jada Pinkett Smith (who talked about the topic with her mom and daughter) to Billie Eilish and more, these celebrities have all gotten real about the importance of self-pleasure.

Read on, and then see if you don’t get inspired by these six masturbation positions that prove you don’t need a partner to have a good time.

A version of this story originally appeared in 2016.

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If you’re shopping online for sex toys, we always recommend going to the comments section. Just about any sex toy brand worth its salt will make a toy sound delectable in the official description, but if you really want to know how it performs and all the other important details (like how loud, powerful, and truly effective it is), your fellow shoppers have your back. And apparently, they *adore* the Missy.

For the uninitiated, the Missy is a suction sex toy from Girls Get Off, a cult-favorite, women-founded shop that’s all about empowering you to revel in your pleasure. We’ve been talking about the brand recently, as they just released a new, self-thrusting rabbit vibrator called the DeeDee that has shoppers very intrigued.

But the Missy is the current fan-favorite on the site by a wide margin. With nearly 700 positive reviews and counting, shoppers can’t stop gushing over their love for this toy, which is designed to stimulate your clitoris (and clearly does its job).

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“I’ve dabbled with vibrators. But this, oh my word?!” wrote one commenter. “Who needs a man now… Absolute game changer.” That was a popular sentiment among other commenters, one of whom wrote, “Wish me luck finding a boyfriend now ladies … that’s the best O I’ve ever had.” (FWIW, other commenters said it was just as fun with a partner.) They added that they “actually stopped breathing for a bit and I’m 99% sure I saw Jesus for a second,” and claimed they had multiple orgasms despite normally being a “one-and-done girly.”

Truly, the ecstatic comments just kept coming (pun fully intended). “I came so hard I went deaf momentarily,” one person wrote. “Hands up if it made you squirt for the first time,” said another shopper.

In general, what shoppers loved was just how strong the Missy is, especially considering it’s tiny size. That’s thanks to the toy’s pulsing, vacuum-powered head, which you place over and around your clitoris for a seriously pleasurable sensation. It’s also waterproof and easy to use, offering 10 modes that you can toggle between using the simple plus and minus buttons on the side.

The Missy is also billed as a more discreet, quiet vibrator, though some shoppers said it’s louder than you might think, especially on the higher settings. It’s definitely small and travel-ready, though, and easily USB-rechargeable for when you’re on the go.

And although the Missy was designed for people with vulvas, male users say they’re also getting in on the fun. One man in the comments says he’s been using the Missy on his nipples and calls the toy his new best friend. Girls Get Off also recommends people with penises try the Missy on the base of the penis head or move it up and down the shaft to see what feels best.

The Missy retails for $129, but you’re in luck, because we’ve got an exclusive discount code you can use to score 15 percent off. Just type in SHEKNOWS15 at checkout and enjoy! PS: that code works sitewide, so feel free to stock up on lube, toy cleaner (yes, you should be cleaning your toys!), or explore any of the brand’s other popular toys while you’re at it.

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Founded in 2020 by two women (and best friends), Girls Get Off is dedicated to taking the shame out of sex and sex toys. They’re doing it by selling their products like any other wellness or makeup brand — with pretty aesthetics, discreet packaging, and a focus on taking care of (and empowering) yourself. The careful, curated approach to sex toys has attracted fans in the thousands who swear by the brand’s products. The perennial favorite: GGO’s clit vibrator, Missy, which reportedly sells out on the regular and has racked up over 670 five-star reviews on the site. Girls Get Off released a brand new toy, DeeDee, earlier this month, and suffice to say expectations were high.

DeeDee is a self-thrusting rabbit vibrator, and yes, we did say self-thrusting. Rabbit vibes, for the uninitiated, are beloved because they stimulate your clitoris and your G-spot at the same time, so you get penetration, vibration, and lots of attention on your most sensitive spots, internal and external. Not all rabbit vibrators also have the ability to thrust, though, which takes DeeDee to another level.

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DeeDee’s ribbed arm can thrust at different speeds while the external arm takes care of the vibration. They both come together to offer nine different modes of speed and intensity, for what the brand promises will be a “jelly-legged experience.” And if you’re confused as to how a vibrator can also thrust, well, just take a look at the video on Girls Get Off’s site for a demonstration. Looks prettyyyy powerful to us.

The new toy hasn’t pulled in any reviews on the site since its recent launch, but Girls Get Off shared some comments from their testing team, who sounded well satisfied by their experience. “It’s such a different but like WOW factor sensation,” one person said. Another tester said that they would usually never buy “a self-thrusting dildo thing, but this toy is incredible!”

DeeDee also offers magnetic charging, a pretty carrying bag, super-soft material, and a totally waterproof coating, so you can take the fun to your next shower or bath if you so desire. FYI: It’s also on the more expensive side, coming in at $189, but we can help with that. Use our exclusive code SHEKNOWS15 and take 15 percent off sitewide.

While you’re taking advantage of the discount, we also recommend checking out the After Banger to keep your toy clean and fresh. (Quick toy PSA: you should be cleaning sex toys before and after every use and replacing any toys that are getting worn out!) You can also stock up on GGO’s vegan, water-based lube, which is approved for use with the brand’s toys. Shoppers love its non-stickiness and its cute, discreet packaging.

Remember that everyone has different preferences when it comes to sex toys, and DeeDee will likely be on the more intense side, so take it slow and work your way up to a level that feels right to you. Note that this toy isn’t the quietest, either, so keep that in mind before you fire it up for the first time. And don’t forget to claim your discount with our code (SHEKNOWS15) when you do!

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Buying sex toys used to mean either sitting through a “passion party” or braving a brick and mortar “adult” store where everyone seemed embarrassed to be there. Thankfully, the internet has revolutionized the way people buy sex toys, offering a seemingly endless array of options — and not just at speciality stores. Affordable drugstore sex toys are also available, and trust us, there’s zero compromise in the pleasure department if you snap up one of these low-priced finds. Target and Amazon are bursting with the best drugstore sex toys — and they’ve been ranked among the best by stimulation seekers who have their pick of the litter online.

Whether you already have a drawer filled with sex toys or you’re a little shy about this kind of buy, it’s never too late to start your collection. Consider it an investment in self-care; you certainly won’t be alone. Thankfully, taboos about sex toys and masturbation are dwindling as the years go by, and the steady rise in sex toy purchases is reflecting this trend toward, shall we say, self-acceptance. One study shows that more than 80 percent of female consumers keep these handy helpers in their nightstands, making it a billion-dollar industry.

Wanna get in on the self-pleasure game — or up your game? These over-the-counter sex toys — including clitoral stimulators, waterproof bullets, vibrating butt plugs and more — are ready for action and available at push of a finger, and each for under $35. See what all the buzz is about.

Hello Cake Little Sucker Rechargeable and Waterproof Clitoral Stimulator

The inclusive sex toy brand that’s burning up the charts at Target right now is Cake, which offers vibrant vibrating toys for people with vulvas and people with penises. Their hottest seller is this clitoral stimulator that uses 10 different suction modes to customize your pleasure.

plusOne Waterproof and Rechargeable Dual Rabbit Vibrator

This dual vibrator by plusOne stimulates you internally and externally simultaneously. With 10 different settings, it must be getting the job done expertly because thousands of Target reviewers are raving. One called it “Seriously a godsend.”

Hello Cake Little Massager Rechargeable Vibrator

We love a discreet vulva vibrator, and this little purple pleasure machine has 10 settings to stimulate all your erogenous zones, from your inner thighs and beyond. “Got this on sale and it’s given me more pleasure than any other vibrator I’ve tried,” wrote a fan. “Only down fall is I can’t withstand it very long.”

plusOne Waterproof Rechargeable Vibrating Bullet

A bullet is a girl’s best friend! (And a he and they’s too!) This rechargeable, soft and waterproof option is available at Target and can hang with any of the more expensive options in your collection.

plusOne Fluttering Arouser Rechargeable and Waterproof Clitoral Stimulator

Suction toys are undoubtedly trendy in the sex toy world and snagging this one for under $40 bucks from plusOne is a steal. Smooth, powerful and a totally luxe experience at your local drug store.

plusOne Waterproof and Rechargeable Vibrating Ring

Vibrating penis rings are another awesome addition to a collection — and this one is waterproof and rechargeable and a great pick for beginners looking to see if this kinda toy jives with their nightly plans.

Hello Cake Buzzy Butt Rechargeable Vibrating Butt Plug

With its tapered tip, Cake’s Buzzy Butt is good for beginners and seasoned pros alike. The USB-charged vibrating butt plug is at your service with 10 different vibe settings, and it’s waterproof so you can experiment wherever the mood strikes.

LifeStyles a:muse His & Hers Pleasure Massagers Kit

This massager kit has something for everyone, with a multi-speed vibrating ring great for a penis, and multi-speed finger massager for someone with a vagina. The raised studs on the ring and textured surface of the finger massager add increased pleasure for both partners. Both massagers feature three different intensities, up to 35 minutes of vibration, are water resistant and easy to clean, and yes: batteries are included.

Trojan Vibrations Ultra Touch Intense Vibrating Fingertip 

Don’t be fooled by the small size: This bullet and fingertip vibrator packs a punch. It’s easy to transport (and even comes in its own discreet carrying case) and is waterproof, so you can use it in the shower, bath or pool if you are so inclined.

There are few things better than celebrities being open about their sex lives. We love knowing that our favorite stars are out there embracing pleasure, having fun, and using their clout to dispel stigma around something that everyone should be able to safely and happily enjoy: sex. Plus, since their sex toy budgets are a bit more luxurious than the rest of us (looking at you, GOOP!), it can be really fun to get a glimpse at the cool sex toys celebs are able to splurge on and, more helpful for us normies, the more accessible ones that they swear by anyway.

Not every celebrity needs to shout from the rooftops their favorite vibrator style, make, and model, but plenty of them have come out in different interviews to sing the praises of a toy that’s blown their minds, broadened their horizons, or aligned perfectly with their lifestyle and sex life. From a Pocket Rocket rec’d by a former Spice Girl to the notorious sex bench we saw Cara Delevingne and Ashley Benson carry into their apartment, these celebrity sex toy favorites run the gamut of vanilla to super adventurous — and we love them all equally. While not all of these are the exact toy, they represent close matches based on interviews and shout-outs we’ve found in recent memory. Check ’em out and maybe pick a few up for yourself to have a star-studded sexual experience of your own.

A version of this story was published May 2020.

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